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family education | parent-child picture book tasting manual paper Li Xue tongtongkuaikuai many parents are not willing to give their children to buy things at the same time, give the child to spend money not easily won, repeatedly stressed how to cherish the things can not be wasted and so on, the children to harvest is scarce and a sense of guilt, heavy difficult relationship with money. On children’s education, many parents often confused: how to educate children? How to make children good behavior? Wait。 In traditional education, we in front of the children said "a journey", said "don’t spend money," said "our family is very hard"…… In fact, these do not allow the child to be more affluent, better character, but also can not make them happy life. The best way to keep a child’s character is to make them happy. The quality of life is not determined by matter, but by the mind. A friend is rich and well educated, and so are brothers and sisters. Her childhood, all material is very poor, but his mother always keeps the life of beauty, from time to time to give the children back to some of the best gadgets, the hardships of life, never send money, not easily won cherish heavy sense of such education, children always feel heart rich flow, so later to the society by virtue of our ability, each rich and have the spiritual pursuit. Lack of sense of heart, often more than three generations to change! Seen several such families out of people born in the poor Chinese age, but parents can only eat half as pour as a church mouse, even a meal of meat, but also willing to call on the children and friends together to share happiness, children such as noble spirit. Later, when the political environment improved, they could always find a way out. Three generations of nobility refers not to cultivate the three generation of wealth must be noble, but the inner sense of lack, often more than three generations to change. So, not the rich and poor, but the attitude of parents to money directly determine the future of children can be rich. Many parents do not want to happy to give their children to buy things, and give children money, how money repeatedly to cherish things not easily won can not be wasted and so on, the children to harvest is scarce and a sense of guilt, heavy difficult relationship with money. Psychoanalytic theory of mind, children’s parent-child relationship into the child’s internal relationship model, which determines the fate of the child’s life. Popular point of view, the parents of children like programmers, children’s parents to their children to write a subconscious mind is the lack of a heavy, the child in the future how abundant flow? With a sense of scarcity came to the community, the subconscious command of their own, but also easy to experience the lack and heavy everywhere. For example, do not believe that I deserve a good job, always find difficult not to make money, even if the money can not easily enjoy a give yourself money feel guilty, also prone to excessive hoarding things, resulting in greater waste. For example, parents have always been said not to waste skin care products, can not help but to buy their own money to buy a lot of skin care products, but abandoned painting相关的主题文章: